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Linear Algebra, 4th Edition
Author: Stephen H. Friedberg, Lawrence E. Spence
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The Friedberg, Insel, Spence book  passes your test. Linear transformations first, then matrices as a representation of transformations with respect to a specified basis. Depending on your tastes, you may find it too dry, but imo it is a clean presentation.
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