I asked my guy, I got the book title wrong. It's The Control Book and here's the link: https://www.amazon.com/Control-Book-Peter-Masters/dp/1442173866
Apologies for the inconvenience.
I've always turned to submissiveguide.com and dominantguide.com. My Dominant husband enjoyed The Control Book when starting out and I liked Where I Am Led which is a service submission based journal and workbook.
There's a book list available if you search this topic here in the group.
Welcome and good luck.
ETA: adjustment to book and link https://www.amazon.com/Control-Book-Peter-Masters/dp/1442173866