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Event Centric: Finding Simplicity in Complex Systems (Addison-Wesley Signature)
Author: Greg Young
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I've been making a similar transition. My advice:
Start at http://cqrsinfo.com/.
Listen the the Distributed Podcast.
Catch any of Greg Young's talks. For example, here is Eric Evans interviewing Greg. He's got some all-day sessions that are recorded as well.
Read/listen to anything from Udi Dahan (poscasts, lectures, articles, etc.). He's got some good stuff on InfoQ.
Read whatever you can find on EDA (Event Driven Architecture).
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