The Myth of Self-esteem: How Rational Emotive Behavior Therapy Can Change Your Life Forever (Psychology)

Agreed. I think a lot of people spend beyond their means because they tie their self-esteem to appearing a certain way to others. People need to learn unconditional self-acceptance instead https://www.amazon.com/Myth-Self-esteem-Rational-Behavior-Psychology/dp/1591023548

Their behaviors and goals are definitely lower than your's appear to be, but that doesn't make them beneath you. Rate what people do, not what people are.

That's my opinion and the opinion of this guy. https://www.amazon.com/Myth-Self-esteem-Rational-Behavior-Psychology/dp/1591023548

I don't think you are inferior if you don't accept it.

Read this https://www.amazon.com/Myth-Self-esteem-Rational-Behavior-Psychology/dp/1591023548

It might help

I don't think you're a loser. This is why

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What's a loser?

I highly recommend this book if you believe you are one.

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This might help you find a commune

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By the way, this helped overcome some of the irrational beliefs that were bedeviling me. It could help you. https://www.amazon.com/Myth-Self-esteem-Rational-Behavior-Psychology/dp/1591023548

Don't buy it from Amazon though. That's even more evil than Uber.