Agreed. I think a lot of people spend beyond their means because they tie their self-esteem to appearing a certain way to others. People need to learn unconditional self-acceptance instead
https://www.amazon.com/Myth-Self-esteem-Rational-Behavior-Psychology/dp/1591023548
by [deleted] 2019-08-24
Their behaviors and goals are definitely lower than your's appear to be, but that doesn't make them beneath you. Rate what people do, not what people are.
That's my opinion and the opinion of this guy.
https://www.amazon.com/Myth-Self-esteem-Rational-Behavior-Psychology/dp/1591023548
I don't think you are inferior if you don't accept it.
by [deleted] 2019-08-24
Read this https://www.amazon.com/Myth-Self-esteem-Rational-Behavior-Psychology/dp/1591023548
By the way, this helped overcome some of the irrational beliefs that were bedeviling me. It could help you. https://www.amazon.com/Myth-Self-esteem-Rational-Behavior-Psychology/dp/1591023548
Don't buy it from Amazon though. That's even more evil than Uber.
Agreed. I think a lot of people spend beyond their means because they tie their self-esteem to appearing a certain way to others. People need to learn unconditional self-acceptance instead https://www.amazon.com/Myth-Self-esteem-Rational-Behavior-Psychology/dp/1591023548
Their behaviors and goals are definitely lower than your's appear to be, but that doesn't make them beneath you. Rate what people do, not what people are.
That's my opinion and the opinion of this guy. https://www.amazon.com/Myth-Self-esteem-Rational-Behavior-Psychology/dp/1591023548
I don't think you are inferior if you don't accept it.
Read this https://www.amazon.com/Myth-Self-esteem-Rational-Behavior-Psychology/dp/1591023548
It might help
I don't think you're a loser. This is why
https://www.amazon.com/Myth-Self-esteem-Rational-Behavior-Psychology/dp/1591023548
What's a loser?
I highly recommend this book if you believe you are one.
https://www.amazon.com/Myth-Self-esteem-Rational-Behavior-Psychology/dp/1591023548
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This might help you find a commune
https://www.ic.org/
By the way, this helped overcome some of the irrational beliefs that were bedeviling me. It could help you. https://www.amazon.com/Myth-Self-esteem-Rational-Behavior-Psychology/dp/1591023548
Don't buy it from Amazon though. That's even more evil than Uber.